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Archives for February 2015

Showtime’s Shameless: Ian Gallagher and Me

February 28, 2015 By Paolina Milana Leave a Comment

Ian Gallagher faces his bipolar disease.

Cameron Monaghan’s portrayal of Ian Gallagher’s mental illness unraveling is brilliant.

Shameless, Showtime’s Sunday night series about the very dysfunctional Gallagher family and their friends has felt like home to me since the day it debuted.

From the seemingly always grey and slush-covered scenes of my hometown Chicago; to the role reversals of children having to parent their parents, raise themselves, and keep secrets in order to stay together; to the crazy chaos of their lives and the situations they must navigate just to survive: Shameless and its over-the-top storylines aren’t so over-the-top for me. As a matter of fact, they hit pretty close to home, and in no scene has it felt more familiar than in the final moments of season five episode six “Crazy Love” when Ian Gallagher (brilliantly played by Cameron Monaghan), the middle child who is gay, signs himself into a psychiatric hospital.

The fear seen in Ian’s eyes. The slight tremble of his hand as he signs his name on hospital papers. The resignation on his family’s faces, the realization [Read more…]

Filed Under: mental illness, schizophrenia Tagged With: Cameron Monaghan, ian gallagher, mental illness, schizophrenia, shameless

Sex: Shame Turns into Celebration

February 7, 2015 By Paolina Milana Leave a Comment

Sex. That “s word” used to scare the bajeebies out of me. Looking back, it’s no wonder why. Growing up, sex earned me a whole lot of the opposite of pleasure. For a good Sicilian Catholic girl, it was taboo to think about it, let alone act on it. Natural instincts and teenage sexual awareness, for me, were met with accusations, beratement, abuse, and a sense of shame that contributed to my ballooning to 365 pounds. Stuffing down so many secrets, surrounding myself with an armor of added flesh: I thought it would keep me safe. What I didn’t realize was that my silence was suffocating me, and the one person who would prove most dangerous to me was me.

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Filed Under: rape, sexual assault Tagged With: coming of age, sex, sexual awareness

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